Saturday 16 October 2010

Family Holiday in Croatia











It took me long enough to post this entry given that we went to Croatia in September. Problem is that Facebook often rather takes the place of the blog these days and sometimes I wonder how to differentiate one from another. Anyway, a friend told me the other day that her blog is her 'happy place' which is a very refreshing and positive way of looking at things. My blog isn't always a happy place. I often ponder here and offload my worries. But it IS a record of Max's life, my life, our life, and my thoughts about what is happening.

This entry is, however, definitely a happy one. In the last two weeks of September, we spent two wonderful weeks on the island of Korcula in southern Croatia (a ferry ride from Split). We travelled, for the first time, with what the Americans call an RV or recreational vehicle i.e. a great big bus thing which was our home for the fortnight. It was a fabulous experience. We all loved sleeping in the RV (Max slept well as he was happy to be close to us and we were happy to be close to him without having his feet in our face). We stayed in a wonderful spacious campsite shaded by pines with lots of space for Max and his bike and within spitting distance of the beach and sea. We were able to cycle almost everywhere or we caught little taxi boats around or off the island which thrilled Max no end. Max also had a growth spurt whilst we were there making restaurant experiences so much more relaxing and enjoyable as he was starving and keen to try lots of new things. All-in-all an experience I would recommend to any small family.


Event of the Autumn - Max starts Pre-School/Kindergarten!

Max's last day at nursery...



...and first day at Kindergarten




I will freely admit that this was a prospect I was rather worried about. I think I thought I knew it was time for him to move from nursery to pre-school but still wasn't entirely sure he was ready. It was highly likely that I would still have these feelings of unreadiness 3 years hence which does beg the question as to who exactly wasn't ready - me or him. Yet, he was still crying when we left him at nursery - admittedly only briefly but nonetheless heart-breakingly. He had sort of started to play a little with the other children but still wasn't overly sociable. Would he cope with all the bashy, bruisy big kids? He was used to being a big fish in a small sea and suddenly the tables were going to turn...

Well, I really needn't have worried. I could not have hoped for a better transition. The first couple of days I think he was just in shock. He was certainly excited about Kindergarten as a concept but I think hadn't quite twigged we were going to leave him with a room full of complete strangers! He did cry on being left - for the first two days. He then confidently informed us that he wasn't going to cry at Kindergarten never ever ever and has been true to his word ever since...

Here we are 3 months later and I can safely say he is settled and happy. I am not entirely sure what he does whilst I am gone as he and his teachers are both equally unforthcoming but I suppose no news is good news. One things I am certain of - he plays with the other children - quite a lot of rough and tumble and his language is developing in all sorts of directions and is full of colloquialisms both cute and less cute!

Long may his development and independence advance...as long as he doesn't forget about his Mummy!!